In 1978, members of the Westbury Church of Christ in Houston helped me to go to Abilene Christian University. As a first-generation student, these brothers and sisters provided emotional and financial support so that I could complete my undergraduate degree. I remember coming back to Houston for Thanksgiving that November, helping several ladies at church that Wednesday evening to make a birthday "cake" for our preacher, Stanley Lockhart. The cake was really a large, foam cushion, the kind that you would sit on, with icing on it--it was a joke for Stanley. Virginia Jones was in the kitchen, and we struck up a conversation. I imagine that several of the other ladies had been telling her about me--she gave me a big hug and handed me two $20 bills. I was amazed by her generosity, her warm smile, and the feeling that I was loved, even though she didn't really know me. Over the next three years, Virginia ("Ginger") became like a mother to me, sending me care packages and feeding me when I came home to Houston. She and Eddie were a steadfast beacon of encouragement to me; and, when Wayne and I married, they were very involved in helping with the wedding and reception. We even spent part of our honeymoon at Lake Livingston with them. We would often visit them when our children were growing up. Ginger and Eddie and others at Westbury provided a foundation for my life and career. I went on to earn master's and doctoral degrees. Wayne and I have been married for 34 years, and we have two grown children, a daughter who is a museum designer and who lives in New York City, and a son who is a Naval officer, stationed in Bahrain. I have been a faculty member and administrator in Christian higher education for almost 30 years. My life would've been very different if not for the kindness and generosity of Ginger and Eddie Jones and others at Westbury. Wayne and I had hoped to attend the funeral on Saturday, but we have longstanding professional commitments for this Thursday. We will be there in spirit. Blessings to you, dear Gail. Love from Nashville!
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