Services

Visitation One

Mon. Feb. 12, 2007
5:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Spring Woods United Methodist Church

1711 FM 1960 West
Houston , TX 77090.

Funeral Service

Tue. Feb. 13, 2007
10:00 am

Spring Woods United Methodist Church

1711 FM 1960 West
Houston , TX 77090.

Graveside Service

Tue. Feb. 13, 2007
2:00 pm

Houston National Cemetery

10410 Veterans Memorial Drive
Houston , TX 77038.
Mon. Feb. 12, 2007
5:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Spring Woods United Methodist Church
1711 FM 1960 West
Houston , TX 77090.
Tue. Feb. 13, 2007
10:00 am
Spring Woods United Methodist Church
1711 FM 1960 West
Houston , TX 77090.
Tue. Feb. 13, 2007
2:00 pm
Houston National Cemetery
10410 Veterans Memorial Drive
Houston , TX 77038.
In Memory of
Barbara Louise McLaughlin
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May 14, 1937 ~ February 8, 2007

Barbara Louise McLaughlin went home to be with the Lord on the morning of Feb 8th, 2007 after a courageous one year battle with cancer.

She leaves behind to cherish her memories son Patrick McLaughlin of Houston Texas. Daughter Kathleen Giannette and son in law Rick Giannette of Spring, Texas. Granddaughter Erin Giannette of Austin, Texas and grandson Kyle Giannette of Spring, Texas. Two grand dogs Titanic & Darby and also Elliott the parrot.

Sister Virginia Settle of Detroit Michigan and Virginia's family: Dawn, Husband Tom & children Kayla & Thomas. Sister Geraldine Ferrara of Detroit Michigan & husband Russell (Junior), children Kelly & her son Cody, Raquel & husband Bill, Cary & wife Wendy & their children, Cary Jr. & KellyAnne.

Honorary family members include: Trina Elder, Monica & John Giannette & children Cheyenne, Alyssa & Anthony, Shirlie & Greg Christner & children Darcy, Jeramy, Darius, Quentin & Shaylee, Kevin & Joy Glade, Katie Glade, Deidre Brightman & John Andre, Jennifer & Sam Katacic & children Ava & Emma, Libby & Tim Tyndorf.

Special friends include: Jeff & Cathy Gokey, Frankie Irwin, Melva Cowart, Nina David, Debbie, Lindsey & Ashley Brown, Ruth Havens, Matt & Deanna Soltis Delina & Jim Gallagher & sons, Jake, Jackson & Jared & many more friends too numerous to count.

Barbara was born in Detroit Michigan to Sheldon & Geraldine McTaggart. She met her husband Robert McLaughlin & they married in November of 1957. Bob & Barbara adopted their first child, Patrick Michael in 1963. They lived in Detroit until 1964 & were then transferred to Geneva Illinois with the F.A.A. They adopted their second child, Kathleen Ann in 1966 from Aurora Illinois. Another transfer took place in 1979, this time to Houston Texas where she lived until she died. Bob passed away in 1987.

Barbara gave her heart to The Lord in her 50's & strived to serve Jesus in her daily walk. Barbara took a tour with her daughter's Mother in law, Trina & other believers to The Holy Land in the early 90's. She often spoke of how that trip truly changed her life. She was employed at Spring Woods United Methodist Church for 10 years & was a faithful member there until her death. Barb was a Sunday school teacher & a facilitator for many Beth Moore Bible studies. She worked at Y'alls Texas Store in Old Town Spring for several years & the highlight of her time there was talking to so many people from other cities, states & countries. Barb was also a Mary Kay beauty consultant for 12 years.

Special interests included, studying God's word, sharing His promises with others, traveling, Gospel & Christian music, spending time with her family (especially her grandchildren) & friends. She also appreciated pretty jewelry, clothes and was meticulous about her appearance.

When she was diagnosed with Lung Cancer in January of 2006, her daughter Kathleen was able to attend all of her Dr. Appointments & tests. In the final weeks before her death, Kathleen moved into her home to care for her with the help of many family members & friends. Her Grandaughter Erin was able to move in for the last week of her life & was instrumental in her Grandma's last moments on earth.

Special thanks to Houston Hospice, especially Charlie Barnes, Hope Cook & Verneal. In lieu of flowers, donations should be made to Houston Hospice, C/O continuous care evening nurse shift. www.houstonhospice.org 713-467-7423

Charitable Donations may be made to:

Houston Hospice
1905 Holcombe Blvd., Houston, TX 77030-4123. Website Link

Tributes

Message from
Linda
Sun, 02/11/2007

During my three visits with Barbara I felt a sense of God. Barbara was ready for God's call. He gave her a beautiful smile and love surrounded her. I felt I was given a lesson on how to die.

God Bless You Barbara.

It was a pleasure to share Charlie with you.

Message from
Ellen Jester
Tue, 02/13/2007

Kathleen & family -
While I know you must be grieving, it's clear from reading your mom's sweet obituary that she knew Jesus and that she is with Him now. I know how much your mom meant to you, Kathleen, and I'm so glad you were there with her during her final weeks. What joy that must have brought her, and what a blessing that was for you!! May God grant you the peace you need to make it during these difficult days. Bathing you in prayer, my friend!!!
Ellen

Message from
Natalie Dicks
Tue, 03/06/2007

Our prayers and hearts go out to the family during this time. It is comforting to know that we will see Barbara when we leave this side of heaven. I remember Barbara as always being dressed up, put together, every hair in place, and always with a sense of humor. I'm sure she was in peace during her final days in the arms of loved ones...what a blessed woman! God bless to all of you.

Love, the Dicks Family

Message from
Margaret
Mon, 04/16/2007

I would like to express my sympathy to the family. I hope you are finding comfort in the time you spent with your dear loved one. Please find comfort in the hope expressed in the Bible at Revelation 21:3,4 where it tells us that mourning, pain, and death will be things of the past. Even Jesus confirms this promise at John 5:28,29 where he says that those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out. I hope you find comfort in this hope. Feel free to email me to comment or if you have questions. Again, please accept my condolences.

Message from
Kathleen
Wed, 02/06/2008

Hi Momma, Can't believe this time last year, we were just waiting...waiting for Jesus to call you home to be healed for eternity. I miss you every single day... sometimes it feels like a lifetime ago that you left, other times it feels like only a minute. I miss what you are missing out on. I want you to be here so I can share all that is going on in our world. Can you see us? Can you see Kyle's new apartment? Can you see all of the dogs & other animals that Erin is rescuing? Are you with Rick on his way to work every day & his long commute? Do you see the pain that I am in after losing Ty? Is Frankie with you? I have so many questions & I know that doesn't surprise you in the least!!

There are so many people that miss you & I have to believe that you miss them too...We have come a long way since last year this time...I will survive, you taught me how to carry on, shed a few tears & move forward. I hope you knew how much I loved you while you were here.

How did you deal with so much loss in your life? I never fully realized how strong you were & how much you had on your plate. I'm sorry for not being more understanding. I know that you learned how to lean on The Lord in all things & I saw that change in your life. I'm really trying to lean on Him during this time cause I know He knows my pain. It's so hard to go on sometimes. I will...there are many things left for me to do! I want to spoil my grandkids like you did, I want to travel with Rick & enjoy our time together. I want to show Erin & Kyle unconditional love & always be there for them. Can you help me? You always helped me, I still need that Mom!!

Well done good & faithful servant...I will miss you forever my sweet Momma & love you for always.

Your daughter, Kathleen

Message from
Erin Giannette
Fri, 02/08/2008

Monya,
I can hardly believe its been a year since we've snuggled. I miss you every second of every day, I never thought I could make it without you, but I feel you near me when Im at my lowest. Thank you for being there for me for everything and still now. I know you are taking care of my baby Ty Boy and hes getting his special butt rubs that you loved to give him. Please hold Frankies hand like she always held mine, I still read her 'Keep on Dancing' book that she gave me to help cope with you, and now for her too. I hope you and GG are watching Golden Girls and you're knee slapping, and laughing that wonderful laugh. Give Big Turtle kisses for me, and don't yell too much when he acts up. Please watch over Gunga and make sure he stays out of trouble I miss him so much. Be there with mom when she needs you, I think she misses you even more than she knows,shes trying to stay strong for us but she needs comfort to. Thank you very much for the HUGE destraction this week she is wonderful and I know she is a gift from you. I love you in a place where theres no space or time.
Always,
Erin Michelle

Message from
Erin Giannette
Wed, 05/14/2008

Happy Birthday Monya!!!I doesn't make sence that two years ago we were together and a year ago Frankie was here. We know you guys are having an extra special party today and I know you guys are happy to be together again. We miss you both so much and always will. Love always, you're gal

ps The Rose said you could use her name just for today (=

Message from
your gal now and forever
Sun, 02/08/2009

Monya,
Im not sure how to act today, I want to be happy that we have survived 2 years now without you, but it kills me that we can survive at all. It hurts me to think that its been two years since I've heard your voice, or one of you incrediable laughs. Im where I am today in huge part because of you, thank you for instilling such strength and love in our whole family. There really aren't words to express how much I miss you, I know there will always be something missing in me until we are together again. Please give me the strength to get through another year. Thank you for your frequent visits, you always know when I need them. I love you more than words can say

Message from
your gal
Mon, 02/08/2010

Monya,
Here we are, another year that we have survived with you gone. Time has a way of sneaking up on you, three years is hard to believe. Everyday has been tough but I know you're holding my hand and pushing me forward. Its now three years closer to us being together again. Thank you for the frequent visits, and yet another distraction this year. Its funny all the things that you just happen to put into my life around this time of year. Thank you for orchestrating all of the time we get to spend with our Mi family, I can defiantly feel you there. I hope you like the little tribute I got for us while I was up there. Until next time, you know how i'll be missing you every second of everyday. I love you in a place where theres no space or time.

Message from
your gal
Tue, 02/08/2011

Well Monya today still takes me back to the day we said goodbye for now. I try and focus on all the good times and it has become easier. There are finally more laughs than tears, my heart will always ache for the moments when I need you. I know will always be with me. Thank you for everything you have taught me and continue to teach me. Thank you for taking Melva when she needed to go, im sure you gals are having a blast. I'll love you now and forever, make sure to give Ty boy kisses for me (= xoxoxoxoxoxo

Message from
Your Gal
Sat, 05/14/2011

Happy Happy birthday my Monya!! I have no doubt you guys are having a wonderful party in heaven. Everyone here has you on their mind today and we are celebrating Ella's 5th bday. The Rose sends her love, some tears today but overall gratefulness that we are in each others lives. I love you in a place where there's no space or time, all my love xoxo