Carlos David Berdeguez

I will miss you so much big brother. I can't understand why you had to go so suddenly. And I never will. You were always there for me and I hope that you felt the same about me. I don't know what to do without you in my life. You were supposed to watch your kids grow up. Mine too. I promise that Nick and I will take that fishing trip together that you were planning. We will think of you and laugh about all the good memories you have left us with.
Not a day will go by that I will not think of you. I promise to always be there for Darlene and the boys. They are a part of my life too. I love you so much and I am glad that I got the chance to tell you that one last time. I miss you, Diana

Uncle~ I miss you so much. You were everything to me. Mainly the "Dad" in my life I never really had. I know you are safe with God and for some reason, he needs you with him. I too will go on that fishing trip we had planned on and I'll catch that "big one". I miss you so much and wish you were here. You will always be in my heart. I will pass on to your boys everything I knew about you so they know from me what a great Man you are...not were because I know you will always be around. I love you. your niece...Andrea

To my son-in-law, Carlos, who brought so many fun times to us. We will miss you, but I know you are walking on the street of gold. James and I will try to help Darlene and the boys in every way we can, but there is no way we can come close to replacing you. We will meet again around the throne of God. Goodby until then, Charlotte.

Carlos...I can't even begin to express in words the pain and emptiness we all feel. You were such a big part of everyone's lives, even those whom you had just met. I consider myself to be very fortunate, proud, and honored to have been a part of your life. My only regret is that my children, Lindsey and J. R., never got the chance to meet such a great man. They would have loved you dearly. They will, however, know all about you. Dee, Lauren, Nick, and I will see to that. I'm not sure if I ever thanked you enough for helping us through a very difficult time with your attention, guidance, and love. I will remember our talks forever. Thank you. I will also remember the good times we had playing golf, and especially your difficulty clearing the Ladies' Tees with your drive. Nice boxers, by the way! We will meet again, my brother......Ross

I cannot put into to words how much I will miss you. I couldn't have asked for a better uncle. I am thankful for all the good times we had and I know I am a better person because you were in my life. The "washer and dryer" story will continue it's legacy! I love you so much and I promise to always be there for Darlene and Daniel and David. Although I know in my heart that some part of you will always be with us. You will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. I love you. <3Lauren

Carlos,

I will never forget how kind you have been to my girls. Madeline practices T-Ball and really enjoys it. I am sure she will hit that home run for you! And Emily that "Puddin head", is just a mess. I just want you to know that I will do my best to keep your memories present and help Darlene, David & Daniel have that fun eventful life you lived. Darlene has many great friends and family to help her with the twins too. She is in good hands. We will be making more stories to share with you.

Until we meet again,
Shawna=)

this is hard to write because i dont want it to be true..but i will never forget you and you have had such a great impact on my life i miss u soooo much i dont know how our family will be able to go on the same without you...you always had a great sense of humor and kept me laughing constintly ill ALWAYS remember the talks we had and good times we shared...like all the fishing trips and the time we stayed up all night talking about everything and playing backyard football in the living room..i even cheated when u went to the bathroom and you cought me and still beat me..you were the best uncle in the world..you have effected so many people and you will be greatly missed...not a day will go by that i wont think of u
..ealier today me and lauren were talking about how we will never be able to watch 60 minutes again seriously and the time me and you went alagator spotlighting and the bass jumped in the boat..you've left us all with great memories and words cant even express how badly you will be missed and theres no one in the world like you,you were the greatest uncle in the world things just wont be the same without you...i will miss you forever...love ,nick <3

To the greatest coach we ever had the honor to met. Because of your hard work and dedication as a coach and good friend to your team my son sylvester has developed into a great basketball player because of your kind personality and patience with all the kids in the past 2 seasons. It still hard to believe we wont have you next season to continue with your coaching, but I guess God had different plans, maybe he needed a coach for his team and knew just the right person. It was an honor to have known you and called you a friend not only to myself but to children. Both my sons Sylvester and Gerardo and myself will never forget you and will always keep you and your family in our prayers. God bless you and I know that you will be watching over us. From your friends Gerardo and Mary Jane Gonzalez and Family.

Carlos, you very much live on in your sons. I loved your beautiful spirit and the fact that you were a kind, teddy bear of a man. I will always remember when you, Darlene, David and Daniel visited us in January. You seemed to feel so comfortable in our home. We mourn your passing but celebrate the life you lived and your entry into heaven. Much love to you.

Thanks for being such a wonderful man. You always made everything fun - a wedding without electricity didn't seem to bother you at all!! But of course you were marrying DARLENE!! Watching you with David and Daniel was amazing. You will be my brother-in-law in my heart for ever and always!! Love you - Tami

Hey buddy~ The last time that I saw you I was hurting with some lower back pain & had to "go on the DL".Sure felt like I let you guys down that day.I'm hurting again today Carlos,but it's a pain in my heart this time because you have been taken away from your family and friends.I know that Darlene will raise your boys to be a shining example of the kind of man that you were.Till we meet again,get the hoop game going,save me a spot,& we'll take next game together when I get there

Carlos, I am so proud I had such a fine cousin like you. I wish we could have shared more time together, before having to leave this world so early. We were between 8 to 10 years of age when I followed you to school, as you sought. You introduce your visiting Spanish speaking cousin from Puerto Rico to your school teacher and classroom. I was terrified when your school teacher approached me with incomprehensible (English) language. I felt so relief having you around talking on my behalf and looking after me.
Around 15 years of age we spend a summer together in Puerto Rico, along with Diana. Fun times. Recently, I met Darlene, David and Daniel at Belinda’s wedding. You were always full of life, energetic and with a positive attitude. I am having a hard painful time thinking that you are gone. Carlos, we are really going to miss you. May God bless you forever.

Carlos

I am very sad that you have left us. I know you are in very good hands and will always be close to your children and family. I am glad that we were able to keep in touch via E-Mail and you kept me abreast of your children's endeavors as well as yours. I will miss those E-Mails and pictures.

Tio Louie

Carlos,
I have so many emotions right now.I am so glad i got to tell you i love you on our last phone call all though short and sweet. You were the "Dad" in my life you , raised me and taught me so many things I still remember all the camping trips and you taking mom and I to San Antonio. oh and the move to Tx from va. I am so glad you shared my wedding day with me IT MEANT the world to see you sitting there.Mom and I love you so much and will miss you more than any one will know! Mom says your in her thoughts along with all the wonderful memories we shared together. We know you are in good hands and know you are with the lord.
We love you Carlos
Brandy Lane and Sherry Boitnott

Cousin Carlos,

My fondest memories of you are from my childhood. You were the "FUN COOL COUSIN." I can remember going to family gatherings, and asking my dad if Carlos would be there. Because if Carlos was going to be there, then I know I would not be bored. You always played with me & pepe, tickled us until we couldn't breathe, and always had us laughing with your jokes. Being able to see you recently at Belinda's wedding was awesome. You still made us laugh, just like you did when we were kids. And you could tell, how proud you were to be a father to those two boys. You will be missed very much. But I know you will visit.

Love, Wendy-

My memory to Carlos is his wonderful, cheerful dispositon.
I have a heavy heart trying to understand why such a wonderful person had to leave this world so soon.
I will remember and cherish the memories of holidays your spent at our home during your childhood days.
Tio Willie remembers how you admired his 1967 blue torino.
May the angels in heaven fold their wings around you and comfort Darlene and the twins.
Love
Aunt Dee & Tio Willie

Carlos...I am so glad you and your family were able to surprise me and be at my wedding. It was a wonderful surprise and will always mean the world to me. God in heaven has received a wonderful new angel and I know you will watch over your family. My thoughts are with Darlene and the kids as they go thru this tough time. Rest in peace my cousin.

I love you so much man!

It's day 5 since you left and I'm still reeling.

I can't shake this feeling of emptiness.

The inexplicable nature of your passing has my head spinning.

I'm trying to make sense of senselessness.

I'm trying to understand the un-understandable.

I'll keep working on it buddy.

I miss you so much already.

Talk to you soon.

Carlos,

I cannot believe that you are gone. I was so hoping that Faith would get to know you better. I know that she will treasure the times that she spent with you. She was so proud when her Daddy came to see her play softball. I will always try to keep your memory alive. I know that Darlene and I will be able to get Faith and David and Daniel together to play so that they will always know each other. I know that you will watch over her from Heaven. You will always be in our hearts.

To Carlos;

I miss you already. 20+ years ago this tall, dark and handsome stranger moved into my best friend's apartment complex - you, me, Darlene...... the 3 of us had such good times. Times that I cherish and will never be forgotten. Then you and Darlene married and kicked me to the curb (just kidding)! You remained someone on whom I could depend - a true friend, no matter how long in between our seeing each other - it was like old times every time. I love you and may you rest in peace.

Renee'

To: Darlene;

I love you, girl. I know you have probably heard this a thousand times over the last few days - but if you need anything, I mean anything at all - call me. I don't want us to let our visits be so few and far between ever again!

Renee'

Carlos

I want to say thank you so much for being the best uncle a girl could have. You were always here for me no matter what and I know even though you aren't here I can always call on you. Im going to miss all the jokes and stories like how do you get the chicken, rice and fox or whatever it was over the lake. No matter how many times you explained it I could never get it. But im pretty sure you've told David and Daniel so many jokes that they can pass on. You are such a kind caring man and you will always be in my heart! I know we'll meet again in heaven one day and I cant wait to see you again.

I love you so much!
Ashley Renee Duplantis

To Carlos;
I am so sorry you had to leave so soon but I know you are with Jesus now and my mother and all the other Saints of God. I'am so glad I got to know you through my dear friend Darlene. I will try my best to be there for her and the boys. We will see you one day soon. Love in Christ, Carol

Carlos,

You will always be missed. It's only been a few days since you were taken, but there have already been so many times I have started to pick up the phone and call you to ask you a question or just get your thoughts on something. I never realized how much you were a part of our lives until you were gone.
Madeline says a prayer for Daniel, David, Darlene & You each night before bed. She says you are her new "BIG" angel and she is sure you will be watching over her.
I will always help to keep your memory alive. There were so many good times.
Thanks for being a good friend.
Thanks for being a great father to your kids.

I'll See You Again One Day,
Bret

If everyone cared and nobody cried
If everyone loved and nobody lied
If everyone shared and swallowed their pride
Then we'd see the day when nobody died

Darlene, David and Daniel
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all at this very difficult time. Larry and I were so shocked to read the article in the newspaper on Saturday ( sorry that we could not be with you at this time but we were unable to find out the information for the service until I came upon this). Please email me and lets get together I would love to spend sometime with you and the boys. If we can do anything for you please let us know.
Love in christ,

Kathy, Larry and Ty Gressett

My memories of Carlos go all the way back to small-town Orange, Virginia. I will cherish the memories of those years and time spent as carefree teenagers. Although I had not seen Carlos in many years, I can still see his smile and hear his laugh. Our prayers will be with you.

Marty and GW Gray

Carlos,

I know I only met you once at your Mom's place, but my impression of you was that you were a happy go lucky kind of guy. I think you were happy and lucky to have such a wonderful family, a great wife and kids. I can't imagine why God called upon you so soon, but there is a reason for everything we just don't see it right away. I do know you are in a better place and that we will all see you up there one day.

It has taken me quite some time to come to grip with all of this. Senseless cruelities have no place in any of our lives but unfortunately they happen. Carlos - you will always be a hugh part of my life. The fifteen plus years we shared almost daily together leaves me with many good memories. Hundreds of golf outings, the many fishing trips down the Blanco River, camping out and having those long talks. From being your "Best Man" at your wedding, to the many football games we attended, to the pick-up basketball games with our fellow employees, to working together, to the birth of your children and so much much more in between. Being your friend meant so much to me. It was like having another younger brother in my life. Knowing that at any time Carlos might come walking through my kitchen door just to stop in and say Hi and you were always welcome. My children always loved the calamity you brought to our house. The many hot days we shared up on various roofs all across the country, the blood, sweat, and the tears we have shared - nobody can ever take away, NOBODY!

The days we would sit in my house and play guitars, listen and talk about music or just vegging in front of the TV watching the Redskins lose to the COWBOYS. From playing with your dogs to playing with my dogs...it was all good! Never forget the day you and my Rottweiler Major met, I laughed so hard because it was the first time I ever saw fear on your face, but like always you became his best friend too.

Our coaching Jennifer's basketball team to many wins, to watching her win a national championship in H.S. Team Dance, to being Meagan's big Teddy Bear, like I said It was all GOOD!

To Darlene and the Family, I am so so sorry and I know your strength will come from your many memories and your devout love for our LORD. Carlos will now walk with Him and watch over you. With all of my Love and prayers...PEACE.

my dearest friend, oh, how i miss you. i'm so lost without you. words can't describe! i've picked up the phone so many times not knowing what number to call. but yes, i did hear you. that was special, wierd but yes, special. our babies, my heather & deric, your faith, david & daniel. i know you wanted to give so much more! i thank you for the strength you gave. it will be with us forever. thank you so very much for being a part of my life! you are my best friend, i love you and always will.
lisa

you're still with us in every way, always. forever, with love....lisa