Graham Noel Beeby

To the Memory of Graham Noel Beeby

When he is gone, fear not to say his name
Nor speak of him in muted tones
As if it were a shame for one to die
But let him figure in your daily talk
Tell of his loves and hates
Of how he used to laugh, walk and talk
That way you'll keep him in your memory

From his loving Mum, Eileen

In the brief period Graham and I worked together, I really came to appreciate his eagerness to help where ever he could, his keen operational knowledge, and dry sense of humor. We have all lost in his loss.

My last and most recent memory of Graham was just a few weeks ago. He stopped by out booth at OTC to tell me where he was working, to tell a few stories, and have a few beers.

From one Irishman to another...

May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm on your face,
The rain fall softly on your fields;
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Who could forget the time when Graham, Slyka, Sina and I walked across the field from R&R to watch Graham demonstrate the art of boomeranging. With his shirt and shoes left on the ground he proceeded to paralyze us with fear as his hefty toss failed to return... or did it? We were on the ground in fits of laughter wondering if we were about to be victims of his demonstration. Even all these years later when I would run into Graham, we'd still have a laugh about that night. That's how I'll remember you, Graham... with a smile on your face and a crazy song in your heart.

We have known Graham since the late 1960's when with his family and we became neighbours in Luton, England. We all got on very well together and became great friends.

Graham came over to England and stayed with us a few times, the last about four years ago. It was always a pleasure to see him, enjoy his company and interesting to hear of his career.

We will sadly miss seeing him again as will our children Stepen and Susan who used to play with him when they were young.

Brian & Joan Joyce and family

You will be missed.

I will always remember the Still, I will always remember the Dog. think of the next one for us.
Denz

In memory of better times, when we learned as teenagers that it was alright to get drunk disgracefully as long as you chundered in style, when we tried hitting a streetlight with pebbles and you topped us all by scaling the light pole and unscrewing the bulb. We might not have conquered Everest, but we did get to carve our initials into the pinup board of the girls changerooms at Kelmscott High.
Cheers Beebs
from Sob

I remember Graham as a happy little youngster when his Mother worked with me. Eileen has kept me up to date of all his experiences around the world and how he was doing.
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to his wife and his mother at their sad and tragic loss. Ron Horniblew

Remembering Graham, as a child when sharing time out with our children with a dingy having great fun. We last saw Graham on one of his visits to England only for a short while when he talked of his interesting life. Only just having a holiday with his mum Eileen, Graham was in our conversation and thoughts daily. Our love and thoughts are with Eileen and Grahams wife Crystal, at this sad time.
Joyce and John, God bless.

Graham was my "Aussie" cousin that I never got to see often enough. When we were kids I remember teaching him Irish in Rosemount before he left to go and live in Perth, and the times he came back to Ireland to visit. I remember him holding my newborn baby in his arms in 1988! The last time I had news was when he was 'escaping' from Hurricane Katrina. I always hoped to meet up with him again as an adult,but our paths never crossed since the mid 90s. I will always remember Graham as my 'aussie' cousin with a big hugh smile and bright wide eyes. Miss you and my thougths are with Eileen and Crystal.

I have many happy memories of growing up with Graham: his denim shorts which stood by themselves, his wacky bikes, his still, rock collecting, body surfing while away on holiday with our families, trail bike riding, the missing cobbler, being eaten alive by mozzies while sleeping in the garden, his amazing wardrobe and his fascination with the universe. You were like my big brother Graham. You will be sadly missed by all that were lucky enough to have known you and shared your amazing life. Enjoy your next journey. Till we meet again. Your cousin Karen and family.

Graham was part of a team that initially traveled to Houston in 1991 to help the GOM region due to a shortage of operators. I had the privilege of working for Graham during this time and for many years afterwards and found him to have a very dedicated work ethic and enthusiasm for completing whatever he undertook, including our drinking sessions. This was true in his personal life also and Graham directly influenced the way to approach any task with an attitude to do the best you can with the ability you have.

It was recently at OTC that we caught up and Graham’s quest for understanding of technology was still evident in a conversation on how, the ROV system on display worked and the technology differences from other systems.

That distinctive trait for exploring technology and the passion for understanding defined Graham and as a co-worker was an influence and as a mate will be fondly remembered and sadly missed.

I read these tributes and again realize what a multi faucted man Graham was. Food. We ate a lot of food. He enjoyed cooking for his friends and we enjoyed being there for his kitchen adventures. Many a restaurant has provided the back drop for hours of entertaining companionship. My heart is heavy.

I SEE THAT BETSY LOU BEAT ME TO THE BOOMARANG STORY. I REMEMBER IT AS HE KISSED HIS BOOMERANGE TOOK A HOP SKIP AND A JUMP, THREW IT AND LANDED ON HIS BUTT. I DON'T BELEVE WE DID FIND IT THAT NIGHT ! GRAMHAM AND I BUTTED HEADS EVERY NOW AND THEN BUT YOU NEED THAT IN PEOPLE SOME TIMES. FURTHER ON DOWN THE ROAD GRAHAM FURTHER ON DOWN THE ROAD.........

My aching heart goes out Ms. Eileen, Crystal and all of us who were blessed to be a part of Graham's life. His smile, his dancing eyes, his laughter, they way he nodded his head to the right when pleased with himself, his cool fashion sense, his contagious passions, his knowledge that he was never stingy with, his great pizzas, teaching me to appreciate Talking Heads and Beatle music, and most importantly being there when I needed him. I believe Shakespeare said "Everyone can master a grief but he that has it." Graham will always be alive in our hearts and dreams - he is a part of us.

"The Friend Who Just Stands By"

When trouble comes your soul to try,
You love the friend who just "stands by."
Perhaps there's nothing they can do-
The thing is strictly up to you;

For there are troubles all your own,
And paths the soul must tread alone;
Times when love cannot smooth the road
Nor friendship lift the heavy load,

But just to know you have a friend
Who will "stand by" you until the end,
Whose sympathy through all endures,
Whose warm safe hug is always yours-

It helps, someway, to pull you through,
Although there's nothing they can do.
And so with fervent heart you cry,
"God bless the friend who just stands by"
Author Unknown

Words Of Comfort...

Crystal,

My sincere condolences and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

Jesus knows how to get you through your most painful experiences - regardless of their length or intensity.

How long will that be? It's different for each of us. But I trust that you will find comfort in knowing that God completely understands as no one else.

I WISH YOU PEACE...

I was fortunate enough to have been introduced to Graham several years ago in Texas, when he was dating Crystal. How he put up with the four of us sisters during that week still shocks me (Graham seemed so shy at the time).

On one of his trips “home” with Crystal I remember how he hooked his telescope to the computer. He watched the clear Virginia sky for hours naming the stars and galaxies; I was absolutely amazed by his passion and knowledge. Graham, you will be missed by us all.

I had the privilege of working with and learning from Graham when I was still a teenager at Sonsub in the early nineties. He was a key part of the team I will always remember as being one of the most influential in making the ROV business what it is today.

Graham, you'll be sorely missed and never forgotten.

I first met Graham offshore in 1988 early in our careers and worked together at many different locations in Australia, Asia and the USA. It was a pleasure to work with him and it was always good to have him on the team. We were saddened to hear of his passing and send our deepest sympathy to his wife Crystal and Mother Eileen and to all those who will miss him...

We will miss you Graham...

I always remember an evening as teenagers that we spent making pancakes. We didn't have a recipe so kept adding more milk and eggs until we made a good one. We were laughing so much at some of the results that we were almost crying. We named one of yours a 'pomlette' because it turned out more like an omelette but was made by a crazy pom.

I will treasure all my happy memories of you Graham.

Your cousin Sue and family

Graham was one of the early members of a memorable team of very special people who made a little company noticed by some of the big ones. Graham stopped by for a visit late last year and during our brief conversation he brought back many happy memories that had been dormant for some time.
I'll remember him for that moment and the pleasure it gave me to spend even a brief time once again with a very special young man.
Sadly missed, well remembered by the people he touched

Grahams presence was always enjoyed - his intelligence, his curiosities. We remember him well although our paths crossed all too infrequently over the last 20 years, and as many countries. We will remember him well.

Reading the many tributes to Graham has brought back good memories of the old days. I hadn't seen Graham in a long while until several months ago, and he was the same good natured Graham that I had known. He will be missed by many good friends.

Jim, I remember Graham taking photos at Karen & Barts
swiming pool,with Graham setting up his camera then runing
round to get in the photo,also in perth on austriala day
while watching the fire works , he told us that he and Crystal were getting engaged, and how happy they bouth were.
Mary,I remember when Graham came to waltham Abbey and had stew and dumplings and said how much he liked my home cooking . our thoughts are with you all.
Mary & Jim

My memories of Graham are of the great times we had. No matter what we were doing it all turned out for the good. It could be messing around with the telescope or going for a beer or two. We always had a great time. I'll miss you buddy. For what its worth It was a great time.

It's been a few day's now since I first heard that Graham died and I still find it hard to believe that I can't just phone him up when ever I want.
I've known Graham since 1988 and our paths in life have crossed many times over the years.
I have enjoyed the times we spent together and know that he will be greatly missed by all his family and frends.
The only time I do regret was bringing Aussy beer into the US for him, all the bottles broke in my bag.
So long and thanks for all the memories Graham.

A Friend

Although I only spent a few weekends with Graham during family visits, I was very impressed by him- his knowlege, his passion and spirit. What I appreciate the most is everything he brought to Crystal's life. As her sister, I am very thankful that he took such care of her, keeping her informed, safe and happy. It's amazing how one individual can, unknowingly, touch so many through loving another.

As Graham's cousin, I've been priveleged to know him for a long time. We've met infrequently on 3 continents, and he always had an amazing and lovely personality. One of the blessings I had was having him on IM and being able to just chat as the muse hit us. I'll miss that very much. One main memory I want to share, especially with Crystal, is how much his personality blossomed with her entry into his life. She seemed to make him complete, and no one can ask more than that. I'll miss you, technogeek Cousin.

Graham's loss is a hard one, but he leaves behind so many great memories, and we always had a good time when he came to visit us in Galway. I don't think I'll ever forget the great night myself and my brother Kevin spent two years ago, entertaining Graham and Crystal until the wee small hours with guitars, mandolins, and a comb and a bit of paper (in honour of his dad Johnny).

I guess he knows the answer to Life, The Universe and Everything now. Good night and rest well sir.

Although Graham lived so far away we really knew alot about him from the few visits we had with him. He was always willing to share stories and life experiences with us. He proved to be an easy going man when he welcomed his mother-in-law, father-in-law, two sister-in-laws, two nieces, and a nephew into his home March 2006. We had a great time visiting with him and getting to know him better. He will be missed greatly. Sandra & Allison-VA.

I remember when Graham and Crystal took me to Backcreek and I posed on a big rock for him to take pictures, which he really loved doing. I got my first telescope after Graham showed me how interesting the universe is. He always encouraged me to search for answers and be inquisitive. I will miss him.(Allison Williams, age 11-from VA.)

I would like to take this opportunity to express my heartfelt thanks to all who sent condolences, tributes and those who signed the guest book. The tributes were especially comforting in this sad time. I will remember all of you in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.

Graham's loving Mum, Eileen