Heaven has a feisty new angel today. Melba Jean Hayes of Houston, Texas was called to lead the pack on April 13, 2019. Adoring family surrounded her bed as she drifted peacefully away at home. An indomitable, lovable character, there will never be another “Jean”.
Melba was born in a small country house on January 22, 1931 in Center Point, Louisiana, the first child of Hudie D. and Myrtie McNeal. She often played alone, with dolls on the porch and chickens in the yard. Country life would not be her boundary for long. In junior high, she moved with her family to Shreveport where friendships and beauty contests became her ambitions. She won Miss Southern Maid Donuts in high school along with numerous swimsuit competitions. After attending three semesters of college at Northwestern in Natchitoches, Louisiana, New York came calling. Melba landed modeling jobs in several department stores in Manhattan where life was exciting and the world was her oyster; however, her greatest adventure was back at home. Upon returning to Shreveport, she met the man of her dreams on a blind date and married him five months later. What started as a whirlwind romance with IB Hayes turned into a lifelong love story, lasting nearly 70 years. He preceded her in death a mere 17 days before she drew her last breath. He reached for her hand, and she took it. He did not have to wait for long.
Melba Hayes worked as an executive secretary for Exxon for more than 25 years. She was a leader who cared not what others believed about her but how strongly others believed, in whatever that might be. Her convictions rarely swayed; her opinions never stayed silent. She remained bright through many dense fogs, smiling through them all. Melba looked each negative in her life squarely in the eye and killed it dead. She was a warrior who protected her daughters like a mother bear, remaining loyal to the end. She gave them courage, confidence, strength, and love. They, in turn, revere her.
What remains of Melba Jean Hayes is a family and friends who will keep her memory alive for generations to come. These include her twin daughters Kandy Hayes Steen and Karen Hayes Chapman with their husbands, Gary and Bobby; granddaughters Jennifer McLoughlin, Natalie Ippolito, Candice McNair, Jacquelyn Ruesink, and Jessica Uriarti with their husbands Shawn, Tony, Zach, and Jake; nine great grandchildren; her sister Pauline McNeal Levine, brothers Harry and Stephen Croxson and numerous nieces and nephews. A graveside service will be held at noon on Thursday, April 18 , 2019 in the cemetery behind the Zion Baptist Church in Fairview Alpha, Louisiana.
Melba Hayes was fierce, sweet, clever, and accepting. She loved to laugh. She enjoyed having fun and poking fun. Mostly, she loved her family, her friends and her God. No. There will never be another one like Jean. Ever.
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