Services

Burial

Fri. Apr. 15, 2011
10:00 am

Houston National Cemetery

10410 Veterans Memorial Drive
Houston , TX 77038.

Funeral Service

Mon. Apr. 11, 2011
2:00 pm

Bear Creek Baptist Church

5901 Fry Road
Katy , TX 77449.

Visitation One

Mon. Apr. 11, 2011
1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Bear Creek Baptist Church

5901 Fry Road
Katy , TX 77449.
Fri. Apr. 15, 2011
10:00 am
Houston National Cemetery
10410 Veterans Memorial Drive
Houston , TX 77038.
Mon. Apr. 11, 2011
2:00 pm
Bear Creek Baptist Church
5901 Fry Road
Katy , TX 77449.
Mon. Apr. 11, 2011
1:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Bear Creek Baptist Church
5901 Fry Road
Katy , TX 77449.
In Memory of
Eric Ray Vigil
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Eric Ray Vigil, Katy, Texas, died unexpectedly on April 5, 2011. Eric was born March 12, 1987, in Pueblo, Colorado. Eric graduated from Cinco Ranch High School in 2005 and most recently served honorably for his country in the U.S. Marine Corp, discharged in 2010. Eric is survived by a loving family, his mother Jacqueline Barrett Vigil, father Rich A. Vigil and stepmother Dannet Vigil, stepsister Brooke, stepbrother Brandon, his grandmothers Dora Read Vigil and Mary Garcia, his grandfather Ray (Frances) Vigil his Aunts Jeanne (Gary) Gonzales, Sue Ludwig and Eva Vigil, Uncles Ray, Joe, Paul (Antoinette) and David (Amy) Vigil and numerous cousins and extended family members.

Eric held a special place in the hearts of his family and friends. Eric’s talents were many. He was a gifted writer of poetry and short stories and loved to play the guitar and sing. He loved adventure and travel, was certified in scuba diving and continued to devote his time to maintaining his fitness after his discharge from the Marine Corp. For the past nine months we’ve had the joy of reconnecting with our cherished son after being gone for four years.

Eric created such great memories and gave such love to everyone he touched. He loved going to his Aunt Jeanne and Uncle Gary’s ranch and riding four wheelers at top speed. He wished he had his motorcycle with him when his Uncle Ray brought his custom to the camping trip last summer so they could ride together. He cherished good food and craved all of his aunts cooking. He loved talking with his Aunt Eva. Cousin Chris was his favorite babysitter of all time and Eric enjoyed watching Chris raise his own children. He climbed to the top of 14,440 foot Mt. Elbert in Colorado with his cousin Scout last summer, loved his Uncle David’s jokes and always wanted to hang out with Aunt Amy, his roller coaster buddy. Uncle Joe’s art fascinated him. He always wanted a brother and sister and he was blessed to have that prayer granted.

Eric’s smile could light up the planet. He was the best son we ever had. Eric touched so many hearts and lives but often felt alone in his struggle to readjust to civilian life. He gave so much but was unable at times to accept the reciprocity. He was a lone warrior trying to fight the whole battle himself. He was a Marine. We love him forever.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations and reach out to our service personnel at one of the following in memory of Eric Ray Vigil:

The Wounded Warriors, http://www.woundedwarriorproject.org

The Fisher’s House, http://www.fisherhouse.org

Charitable Donations may be made to:

Wounded Warriors
4899 Belfort Road, Suite 300, Jacksonville, FL 32256. Website Link

The Fisher House
Website Link

Tributes

Message from
Kasandra Fields
Fri, 04/08/2011

Eric, to say you were an amazing person is an understatement. Anyone and everyone you ever met always thought you were the coolest and sweetest guy. If the smile didn't do it, the personality definitely did. I remember meeting you through Rachael and everyone in our crew instantly loved you. And I remember jamming out to Cartel when we were in Galveston for our prom shin dig and that was one of the first times we met and we stayed friends throughout the years. Video chatting when you were in Okinawa and hanging out when you were home on leave... You haven't been out of the marines for a year and we only have a hand full of times together. Saying goodbye to such an amazing person will be hard for anyone who has ever had the pleasure of meeting you. We all love and miss you terribly. Rest peacefully Eric.

Message from
Scott McGinnis
Fri, 04/08/2011

Eric lived across the street from my family and me from 2001 until he left for the Marines. We got to see him a few months ago when he brought his little dog “Todd” over for a visit. We had not seen him in 4 years and it was great to have him over again. We talked about his future plans, played with the dog, tried to figure out all his tattoos and took some pictures of him with my daughters, who all loved him. First and foremost I was proud that he chose to be a Marine. That makes him a hero! Most of my memories are of him being a boy on the block. I remember him playing roller hockey with the younger kids, setting off a string of 500 black cats and throwing them down the sewer every 4th of July for a huge explosion. I remember him getting his Mustang, I remember him getting the Mustang taken away. I remember him playing lacrosse. I remember his huge smile and how he always called me Mr. McGinnis and would answer with a “yes, sir” or “no sir”. My best memory is when he was in High School and had a girl over to his house who had never met his dad (Rich). At the egging of Rich and Jackie, I went over to his house and pretended to be Eric’s dad. Jackie was with me the whole time. I acted as if I was drunk, hugged Eric, kept telling him I loved him, then proceeded to hit on this poor girl, hugging her, telling Eric how beautiful she was and such. I made it as uncomfortable as possible. Eric never said anything. Not a word. He just stood there with that gigantic smile and played it out. Unit he finally could not take it any more and just looked at this girl and said… “He’s not my dad.” That was all he could get out without busting up laughing. On April 5, Eric posted some very nice comments on my families Facebook pictures. I will always be grateful that I knew Eric and I knew he loved my family. Thank you to all his Marine buddies out there for your service! I will continue to pray for your safety and well being!!

Message from
Randy Lynch
Fri, 04/08/2011

Eric was our neighbor and a good friend to all the other kids in the neighborhood as they grew up together.People were drawn to Eric because of his smile which mirrored his outgoing,happy personality.He also worked for me as a cook in the restaurant I ran right before he went into the marines.I saw how easily he made friends.It was nice to reconnect with him on facebook and his posts made me laugh.I know he touched many people's lives in a positive way which made his short life so meaningful.

Message from
Joanna Bolton
Fri, 04/08/2011

My thoughts go out to the Vigil family. I met Eric just recently when he came with my cousin Kassie to our families MDA walk. The moment my son Robby met him, he was by his side the WHOLE time! Eric walked with my 5 yr old son hand in hand the entire walk. I thought that was so incredibly sweet. :-)

I can't begin to imagine the loss that his family & friends are going through at this time. My heart goes out to you.

Sincerly, Joanna (& Robby) Bolton

Message from
Aly Harling
Sat, 04/09/2011

I will forever remember you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you, Eric Ray! I will never forget that summer...

Message from
Rachael Elizabeth Gillespie
Sat, 04/09/2011

My first love, my constant partner, my forever friend...I loved you from the moment we met even up to this very second. I cannot imagine my life without you Eric Ray. But I will carry out our plans and dreams for you...our checklist of "things to do before we die" is still sitting on my desk next to your message-in-a-bottle you made me (that we spent like 4 hours trying to get the message out because you forgot what you wrote haha). We didn't get past #1 on the list 'reenacting our first kiss at Zebos' but I promise to do all of them before we meet again. I wish you were here, I forgot how to breathe without you.

"Once upon a time there was a crooked tree and a straight tree. And they grew next to each other. And every day the straight tree would look at the crooked tree and he would say, "You're crooked. You've always been crooked and you'll continue to be crooked. But look at me! Look at me!" said the straight tree. He said, "I'm tall and I'm straight." And then one day the lumberjacks came into the forest and looked around, and the manager in charge said, "Cut all the straight trees." And that crooked tree is still there to this day, growing strong and growing strange."
Love, Squirt

Message from
Kristine Ratanakajana
Sat, 04/09/2011

Great picture!! I remember taking that picture, it seems as if it was just yesterday...I actually had to take so many different camera shots because they all just won't stay still. =) This was actually their last Marine Corps Birthday Ball with 1st Radio last year...some of them were moving to a different duty station, some stayed and some wanted to do different things. I remember this picture because they were actually being loud and crazy -haha imagine Marine Corps Birthday Ball and drunk Marines in their blues and to top it off it's their last ball, last moments together in the same Battalion and platoon so there were all cheers, beer spilling, smiles, laughter and just pure fun. As a Marine wife and having to be around the guys and gals on most of their functions, gatherings I definitely saw a great comradery amongst them, a great pact, a friendship and a brotherhood. I am honored to have met Eric and was able to share some great memories. He's certainly one of a kind!!! With just that Angelic smile, great personality and up beat spirit he has touched so many of our hearts, our lives in some ways even if you had just met him. The RatPack will really miss you Eric Vigil!!! On behalf of your military family and your friends at 1st Radio that might not have known this...we thank you for your service, we thank you for great memories, for the friendship, we love you, we will miss you and may you rest peacefully Eric.

Message from
Ismael Bruno
Sat, 04/09/2011

Eric, you promised Davitt and me you come visit us in NYC the last time we all saw eachother when I went back to Cali last year. As much as Id love to give you that brotherly hug I guess that'll have to wait. Now you'll keep that promise by looking over us from heavens blue skies. You offered so much to your brothers and sister in the Corps and even being an old dog as I am you inspired me very much. You taught me to live for others and not just myself. Knowing you made me a better man. I know that there will come a day when its my time to wrap upon those pearly gates, but I will go in peace knowing that you will be there to great me as a brother and stand post as Marines do. I will always remember you. Semper Fi

Message from
Kristi
Sat, 04/09/2011

Eric Eric Eric...

Everyone has said so much and there is still so much I'm sure everyone would love to still say. I am soooo thankful to have had you in my life for many years, what since HS! Traveling to watch you play laX in college station, getting goofy in a storage unit, OOOOO the times spent at autumn grove, and the things that will never be repeated, PLUS never FORGET FALLLL OUT BOY and so much more. I am happy I got to spend time with you and see you as much as I had since you have been back. I lost touch with a lot of people but never with you. You had a gift of friendship that can't ever be matched. Even with your own struggles you cared like crazy about everyone else and I know personally made sure I was doing ok at times checkin in with me. I wish I could go back to a couple months ago just layin on the couch head on the lap watchin tv and talkin like old times.

On tuesday I am thankful that you told me what you did and gave your goodbye. It's sad but it will be cherrished in my heart forever. I can't wait to see you again someday and I know we have already had "conversations". Passing is not the end in life it's the beginning of a new one and I know this one will be AMAZING for you! I love and miss you very much dear friend... xoxo loves you

Message from
Katie Schalles
Mon, 04/11/2011

My prayers are with your family during this time.

Message from
Connie Garrett
Mon, 04/11/2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you...

Message from
Ron and Linda Hill
Mon, 04/11/2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Message from
Matt Forcey
Mon, 04/11/2011

Rich and Family - My thoughts and prayers are with you. My sincere condolences.

Message from
Peter Quartararo
Mon, 04/11/2011

Rich and Family, You should be extremely proud of your son, I am proud to know that he served and defended our country with Dignity, Respect, and Honor. My thoughts and Prayers are with you.

Message from
RP1(FMF/SW/AW) Delmar Ramirez JR
Tue, 04/12/2011

Eric was an awesome person filled with so much love and joy! I met Eric when I first got to Okinawa back in 2008 and was assigned to CLB-31. He had already been there for a little bit, but he welcomed me with that big smile of his and instantly I knew this was a great guy. It didn't matter what he was facing from the "higher ups" he did his work diligently and smartly never giving anything less than 100% in anything he did.

Eric was always there for us...boosting the morale when it seemed like there was none. He and I would be out to sea on an exercise and we'd play Guitar Hero for hours driving everyone in the berthing crazy. We used to wear hard hats while playing and when people asked why Eric would tell them "It's gonna get heavy in here Bro, so you may wanna put one of these on or get out of here!" He called me "Hard Hat Julio" and he was "Super Cool Guy".

He was one of the people who believed in me. I was up for promotion for the 6th time and didn't think I would make it, but would try on my collar devices to see how they would look if I actually "picked up." Eric asked me what I was doing and I explained it to him...he ALWAYS told me "Don't worry about it RP, you'll make it." I ended up making it and when I did he was right there at the promotion ceremony. I gave him my collar devices before he left for the states and he though that was the coolest "Thanks RP!!"

I love you Bro...I don't know what you were going though, but I wish I had. You always listened to me when I needed you. My deepest condolences to the family and friends...Rest in Peace my Brother.

Warm Regards,
RP1(FMF/SW/AW) Delmar J. Ramirez JR, USN

Message from
Creg Fenwick
Wed, 04/13/2011

I’m saddened to hear about Eric’s passing.
I didn’t really know Eric first hand, meeting him only a few times, I know him through his father “Rich”.
Rich and I worked together; at times spending many hours chatting about our boys (I have a son the same age as Eric).
Rich was always eager to share Eric’s accomplishments. Strangely enough I felt a sense of pride when I heard Eric had joined the Marines, knowing this decision was both heroic and honorable.
Eric Ray Vigil, Thank you for your service.
I have Eric and his loving family in my prayers.

Message from
Chuck Breuer
Wed, 06/08/2011

Rich, Having lost my son when he was very young, I can understand the pain you are going through. I can say that while the pain does not go away, knowing what a wonderful person your son was will help buffer your grief. Please know that Shannon and I are praying for you, your family, and Eric.